Being reminded of why I don't watch silly stupid shit like this.
What? What the fuck is this shit?
And yes. I just typed that a woman who acts like this will ultimately get punched in the face by her man. If THAT FACT DISTURBS YOU, then YOU are PART OF THE PROBLEM. Because HER BEHAVIOR SHOULD DISTURB YOU WAY MORE. That clip and then her talking as if her clear cut attempts to control this guy where it is OBVIOUS that he CHEATED ON HER AT SOME POINT OR ANOTHER and with that BULLSHIT she was just doing I can see why. She seemed WAY TOO COMFORTABLE at causing a scene like that. Nobody on this planet doesn't understand that you can't get anyone anywhere to do anything for you by constantly being an asshole towards them. And you damn sure can't keep trying to solve shit with your fists as a Blackwoman and thinking that screaming and yelling and being loud is gonna get you what you want. This would have been a GREAT POINT if ANOTHER BLACKWOMAN came outta NOWHERE and pulled her aside and made it clear that SHE'S MAKING A FUCKIN ASS OUTTA HERSELF! Be I RARELY IF EVER SEE THAT. This movie didn't do anything good for Blackwomen or Blackmen, besides make us look unstable and easily frazzled to just quit and go do some dumb shit till we get caught!
The bad part is that we do have some Black People out here doing this silly shit and there isn't enough highlights on those of us who are NOT DOING THIS. And this has to change IMMEDIATELY. I'm not typing anything new with that. This is something that we all know is deliberately being done to continue to drag us down PR-wise.
When I watched this FILTH of a fucked up movie I said, well well well. This looks like the slop shit and crap that gets passed off as "Black relationships" when that is NOT a Black relationship. That is a fuckin war zone between a man and a woman and at some point or another the man is GOING TO TURN VIOLENT. THIS, was why I continued to push forward for a divorce from Noni. Because the bullshit in these trailers and scenes alone is enough to make any man NEVER MARRY. EVER.
Worse than this though is the fact that THESE BLACKMEN AREN'T MEN! Their wives talk to them for the most part, with disrespect and contempt where if these were women being depicted this way everyone would be claiming the movie glorifies the abuse of women. Then the CONSTANT ATTEMPTS BY THESE SUPPOSED "BLACKWOMEN", half of them spent their time LITERALLY TRYING TO GET THEIR BLACKMEN TO PHYSICALLY FIGHT WITH THEM!
What in THEE FUCK!?
That shit happens!
But constantly TRYING TO PICK A FIGHT!?
No.
Constantly saying he's NOT A MAN!?
Whu, whut?
That's idiotic and ass backwards logic! Because if he's not a man YOU MARRIED HIM! So what does that say about YOU? The whole movie just seemed to make drama into something that was laughable and not meant to be taken seriously, which is a HUGE MISTAKE.
And these types of "Black Movies" are generally what get GREEN-LIT where they provide slop shit and crap that we really DON'T NEED as Black People. They also GLORIFY the bad PR that we have out already about us!
I kept waiting and waiting for some sense of REALITY to intrude when the drama and ratchetness kept getting AMPED UP and it never happened! The chick who was married to Tyler Perry's character who cheated with the guy at work? Nothing honestly got resolved IN AN ORDERLY FASHION OR REALISTIC FASHION so that Black People could see that when you dig yourself into this kind of emotional whirlwind-style of doing shit? All that ever ACTUALLY HAPPENS is chaos chaos chaos AND CHILDISH BULLSHIT! Till one or both parties just resort to BEATING THE SHIT OUTTA ONE ANOTHER! It's toxic and extremely DESTRUCTIVE!
But in this movie it all gets resolved by Malik Yoba's character being KILLED. And once again it shows Janet Jackson's character claiming he's not a man and WANTING HIM TO FIGHT WITH HER, and why? Because he took all the money from her after he'd spent most of the movie BEGGING HER TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT THE DEATH OF THEIR CHILD. And she flat out couldn't do it, and THAT I GET. I can UNDERSTAND THAT! But it was at that point that I kept saying, if they're all SUCH GOOD FRIENDS? Why can't any of THEM SAY, maybe you need to go to a therapist with her since she's a psychologist herself. Maybe you need to talk to ONE OF HER PEERS IN HER FIELD, OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH-NOOOOOOOOOOO!
Sorry I actually used my fuckin brain while watching this movie, sorry.
And I believe HE was the one having problems dealing with the loss of the child and she simply didn't wanna talk about it. Both of them were just a fuckin mess.
Instead nobody EVER SUGGEST that this situation may HONESTLY BE BEYOND HER ABILITY TO HANDLE AND OUR ABILITY, as their friends, TO HELP YOU GUYS THROUGH THIS, SEEK. PROFESSIONAL. HELP!
-_-
I'm not supposed to type that, am I?
Just supposed... supposed to fumble around in the fuckin dark.
While My Wife falls apart in front of me, right?
Whatever.
Either way!?
He MELTS DOWN and she's already BUILDING UP TO NUCLEAR and that's that for THAT! It was like watching fuckin children PRETENDING TO BE ADULTS. He then FINALLY BECOMES PHYSICALLY AGGRESSIVE AFTER GETTING DRUNK FROM FINALLY GIVING UP! And all of a sudden all that FIGHT ME bullshit isn't funny anymore, because IT NEVER WAS. The pacing was disturbing IF THE INTENTION WAS TO CREATE ANYTHING WORTHWHILE, HOWEVER!? If the INTENTION was to create a movie that shows BLACK DYSFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGES, they succeeded! I don't think any of these Black couples were NOT IN TROUBLE. And IN A REALISTIC SENSE, that WOULD BE TRUE! Because birds of a feather FLOCK TOGETHER. So usually when you find ONE FUCK-UP they generally have OTHER FUCK-UP'S THAT THEY HANG AROUND, same for couples!
Either way, the bullshit comes to a head when Janet Jackson confronts Malik Yoba at work and just totally tries to cut his dick off psychologically in front of his employees! He then DOES THE RIGHT THING AND TRIES TO LEAVE while she's screaming about how he's a bitch and a coward and NOT A MAN, where he speeds away RIGHT INTO A TRUCK AND IS KILLED!
After this...?
Then it becomes "love one enother time cuz ya'll don't wanna be like" PLEASE SHUT THE FUCK UP WITH THAT BULLSHIT! Using a MOMENTARY TRAUMA TO IGNORE LONG-STANDING ISSUES DOES NOT SOLVE SHIT!
But movies like this try to MAGICALLY-DELICIOUS! Make it LOOK LIKE it does, when REALITY SHOWS, it DOESN'T! This movie was a goddamn DISGRACEFUL TRAIN WRECK! Where some real fuckin writing could have turned this into something worth watching. But now that I've seen it, I can't UNSEE it. And that's a crime within itself.
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