Sharletta Martin-Hall EA and Nicole Michelle and My Take on Their Commentary

The Following is from Sharletta Martin-Hall;

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Over the past few weeks I have seen up and down my timeline people saying if you give it up on the first or second date it does not mean anything because they know people that have gotten married and stayed married who did it on the first date and they know couples who did it after 6 months and got a divorce. Some of the folks spreading this message are CHRISTIANS which is even more disturbing. 

Ladies, please don’t listen to this nonsense. 

Your cookie jar is precious you should guard it with your life. Everyone does not deserve it and there is no way by date number 2 you know if this person will be a good provider a good father is he abusive is he a drug addict or an alcoholic. When you have sex there are no guarantees that you won’t create a life when you’re done. I’m starting to see why our community is running rampant with aids and how so many children are being born to single mothers is due to stuff like this. I never wanted a man to give me that look when I said I’m pregnant or ask me to go to the clinic ;personally that would devastate me. 

Men sleeping with women that you really don’t know ain’t worth it. Child support is real!! Have some reservations on who you pass out the magic stick to because everyone is not deserving of it! If you have done this in the past and it worked or didn’t work don’t brag on it especially if you know in your heart it’s not right. We all have done stupid stuff but acknowledge that it was not a smart choice and don’t advise others to do it too. On another note, Are you telling your daughters it’s ok to sleep with a guy on the first date? I guaranteed most don’t so please live the life you want to see your children living because they are watching and listening to you....

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Not even gonna lie I've typed on here that I have been passing up dates. But what I haven't been typing on here is the Fact that I have also been passing up opportunities to simply fuck. I've really been, since creating this blog. Looking back on WHY I honestly was so successful earlier on in Life and that since 23-years old it had been a slow spiral down the shitter. And I've been forced to look at the Fact that I had decided not to have sex all the way up till I was 21-years old.

And no that wasn't a typo and that isn't Me exaggerating.
I'd willfully chosen not to have sex and there was a point and a purpose behind why I'd done that. However after shit fell through with My College Sweetheart WHO HONESTLY DID LOOK LIKE THIS;

To say I was pissed was an understatement and not because of Her Looks. But because of HER INTELLIGENCE AND PERSONALITY. Her Looks got EVERYBODY'S ATTENTION at Lincoln University. But when people saw that We'd become a couple?

Furious is an understatement.
We were both Psych-majors.
And We were both A+ students.
And in typical fucked up fashion, which is why You read Me talking about the Biggest Problem We have as Black-Americans is our shitty parenting methods of LYING TO OUR CHILDREN ABOUT THE REALITY OF THE WORLD AROUND US AND HOW WE ARE TREATED AND PERCEIVED!

Both of Our Parents.
Despised Our Relationship.
Because both of Our Parents.
WERE FUCKIN SLAVE-ASS-LOSERS!!!!!!
And the Moment both sides saw that come hell or high water We were going to do Our Part to CONTRIBUTE TO PUTTING POWER INTO OUR PEOPLE'S HANDS...!?

They did everything They could to break Us up.

It was and will forever be one of the most disgusting things I've ever experienced in My Life. The Level of Cowardice. The Level of Treachery. The Sheer audacity to be so SHAMEFULLY PROUD OF BEING SLAVES!

No Dignity.
No concept of Racial Loyalty and Pride and an UNDERSTANDING that;

Wanting something to Be a Certain Way means nothing when You refuse to do the Work to Make it the Way You Claim to Want.

Both sets of Our Parents.
Had every excuse under the sun to become the Bums that They did regardless of whatever monetary gains They had. Their Biggest Problem was the Fact that Their Lives had NO MEANING. They were simply sacks of fuckin flesh spouting silly spookism shit and then staring into the face of Reality and realizing that They were just going through the motions.

When They saw and heard Us speaking and interacting with one another and then not only questioning the World around Us and how did it get that way, but also questioning what have THEY BEEN DOING FOR OUR PEOPLE TO BE IN SUCH A POWERLESS-STATE.

And You see...? You See now....?

One pattern that I have now lost all patience with is the Fact that everybody ULTIMATELY ATTACKS THE WOMAN. And They do so because Women are RAISED INCORRECTLY FROM JUMP UNDERNEATH THE SYSTEM OF WHITE POWER SUPREMACY.

Putting on a whole bunch of tiresome theatrics and shit-talking!?
Isn't gonna save any woman when people around Her start putting that pressure on Her Ass TO COMPLY WITH WHAT THEY SAY OR THEY CUT OFF ALL FUCKIN SUPPORT!
Too many times I have seen women CAVE IN.
When confronted with this frightening Fact.
No more being cool with Mom-n-Dad.
No more getting money from Them and the rest of the Family.
Whatever They are paying for or providing, DONE.
Aunts-n-Uncles weigh-in and instead of LISTENING AND THINKING AND BEING HONEST!?
It becomes line up with the others and commence the shit-slinging with zero thought and ZERO INVESTIGATION BECAUSE SHE IS LITERALLY A WOMAN AND NOTHING MORE!

But this all takes place because A MAN IS INVOLVED BESIDE HER.
This kind of shit here;

This seems funny.
It seems cute.
But ask Yourself...?
How many fuckin movies do You ever see where parents have honest discussions with Their Daughters and explain to Them what it means to be a Girl and ultimately become a Woman, in relations to how to handle and read Boys who will ultimately become Men.

Where is the Rational and Realistic convo that shows a mother explaining to Her Daughter/s how to properly read Boys and Men so They know how to handle Them and Themselves. Where is the Real Conversations between Mother/s and Daughter/s were They explain that sex for a Female versus sex for a Male can have long-lasting psychological-affect/effect on Her so she can't just attempt to imitate and entertain every man into her bed and even into her life!

The Scene above is actually prototypical of WHITE CUSTOMS-N-CULTURE IN HOW A FATHER "PROTECTS" HIS DAUGHTER/S.
With threats of fuckin violence and intimidation towards males who want to date Her, really...? That's the way to handle shit?
Stop it.
Try teaching Your Daughter/s the Truth about HOW WE ARE AND CAN BE TOWARDS WOMEN. Try that shit first. Try talking to Her LIKE YOU RESPECT HER ABILITY TO MAKE DECISIONS AND READ MEN BECAUSE YOU FUCKIN TAUGHT HER HOW TO DO SO, dumb-asses.

Melissa's parents?
Flat out losers and scumbags.
My Parents?
Flat out liars and scumbags.
MIRACULOUSLY TWO OF THEIR KIDS GOT OUT FROM UNDER THAT BULLSHIT.
Which of course pissed Them off.
This is another reason why shit didn't work right between My Ex-Wife and I nor with Stacey.
Since I am a MALE.
I am expected TO FIGURE IT OUT!
There are EXPECTATIONS FOR ME TO BE SELF-SUFFICIENT AND AT LEAST HALF-ASSED AT MAKING DECENT GODDAMN DECISIONS!
Females, NOT SO MUCH!

So if You think or thought I was going ONE WAY with what I typed GUESS AGAIN!
Females ARE NOT RAISED AT ALL!
They are born into a family and then MOLLY-CODDLED TO THE POINT OF FUCKIN POINTLESSNESS!
The smart-n-wise family's know and/or figure out that They are doing TOO MUCH EXCUSE MAKING AND NOT ENOUGH SITTING HER DOWN AND TEACHING AND TALKING TO HER WHILE BEING FUCKIN HONEST ABOUT THE FACT THAT AT THE END OF THE DAY!?

For Better or For Worse.
She will be judged MOST OF ALL BY THE QUALITY OF A MAN SHE ULTIMATELY DECIDES TO SPEND THE REST OF HER LIFE WITH.
Frown Your Face Up all You Fuckin Want!

We as Men are Faced with the same thing, JUST IN A DIFFERENT WAY.
And lying about it won't change anything.
All of the women I just mentioned;
1) Melissa
2) Noni
3) Stacey

Their family's didn't prepare Them for any fuckin thing at all.
Nothing.
Yet They somehow expected They'd simply magically delicious be good judges of character in Men and Men's Intentions.

Melissa was constantly being forced by Her Parents to say and do whatever They felt she should say and do. No explanations. No questioning for her. Simply swallow whatever was said and then mindlessly nod back that she understood what the fuck they'd just forced down her goddamn throat!

So of course the moment she had freedom of movement she began to pay attention and observe people and see for herself if what ma-n-pa said was actually worth
Shit was worthless.
She quickly found out that as she'd suspected the shit they'd been spewing was a goddamn joke! So now she had to figure out a way to CATCH UP TO HER PEERS WITHOUT BROADCASTING TO THE WORLD SHE'D BEEN SOLD A BUNCH OF USELESS SLOP FOR LIFE-LESSONS TO LEARN AND GROW FROM!

When Her and I became a couple, once again We were friends first. I'm also finding that this doesn't carry anywhere near the weight that it's advertised to. But the reality was We decided NOT TO HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER. I would later on be literally told BY A WOMAN that the Fact THAT I DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER WAS GOING TO END UP BEING A PRIMARY REASON WHY SHE'D END UP SIMPLY QUIETLY GOING ALONG WITH HER PARENTS WHEN THEY SLAPPED SANCTIONS ON HER ASS AND TOOK ALL OF HER ABILITY TO DO ANYTHING AWAY FROM HER!

This is something where I've had to learn over the course of My Life is another reason why I am typing this now and making it clear that there is a REASON WHY.
This phrase is NEVER USED TOWARDS WOMEN;

She is a woman OF HER WORD.

People have been absolutely stunned whenever They USED TO hear Me say this EVEN OTHER WOMEN! Which is a sign of how DEEPLY PROGRAMMED EVERYBODY IS TO BELIEVE THAT WOMEN DON'T HAVE TO KEEP THEIR FUCKIN WORD BUT SOMEHOW MEN DO.

Nobody becomes that GENDER-DUMB UNLESS IT IS SET UP THAT WAY! Because KEEPING YOUR GODDAMN WORD IS A FUCKIN CORE TENANT TO WHO YOU FUCKIN ARE AS A PERSON!

Not because You have a Dick or Tits-n-a-Vagina!
So when I read Nicole Michelle and the women who follow Her pointing out how things have gone off the rails and what needs to be done to GET WOMEN BACK ON TRACK!?
I pay attention to it.
And I support Them as best as possible and why...!?